If you are not satisfied with the way things are between you and your boyfriend and are longing to make him want you more, then all you have to do is play hard to get. Even though this seems easy, there are certain dos and don’ts that you should keep in mind when playing hard to get. These tips will enlighten you on the subject.
Find out if he is as interested as you are in him
Many women make the mistake of playing hard to get without ascertaining first whether or not he is truly interested in them in the first place! That is why their efforts come to naught! It is important to make sure that the guy is interested in chasing you. Once you do this, it makes it easier for you.
Don’t play the game too hard
Not knowing when to quit is dangerous. He will easily lose interest in you and think of you as a snobbish, proud and egoistic female who is not worth the chase! Avoid this by being sensitive to the situation and know when to stop being so unavailable.
Learn the rituals of courtship
It is extremely important for you to know the ethics and principles of courtship. Don’t rush headlong into the game without knowing the rules first. Give him the exciting thrill of the chase and keep his interest alive in you. He should be motivated to find out more about you and you can do this by playing hard to get.
Leave it to his imagination
Once he thinks he knows all there is to know about you – he could lose interest in you completely. The idea of playing hard to get with him is to keep him in the dark about certain things. Don’t reveal too much too soon. Let him pursue you to the point where he is mad with desire for you.
Build intrigue and chemistry
Every move you make and every look and expression should make him wonder as to what is going on with you! This type of behavior will stimulate him and arouse him to want you more than ever. This will work even better if you withdraw a little and make him wonder if you are pulling away from him!
Get caught at the right time
If you keep pushing him away too much and too often, it may backfire on you and you may find yourself left high and dry! Relax and let your self get “caught” at the right moment.
Use reverse psychology
The best way to obtain what you want so desperately from your man is to use reverse psychology! Showing him that you like him but acting like you could lose interest, is one way to make him sit up and take notice of you. The moment you pretend that you like someone else more he will suddenly get even more attracted to you.