Virgo men are a species unto themselves. If you’ve been involved with one, or are currently, this certainly isn’t news to you. You’ve lived it and you know that confusion is often part of the course of caring for a Virgo. These men can go from hot to cold in an instant and if you’re trying to catch his heart, you know that you need to be wary of what kind of net you choose. If you do anything wrong, in his eyes, the Virgo man may make a quick exit only to return a few weeks later proclaiming his undying devotion to you. If it seems confusing just reading it, imagine what it’s like being immersed in it on a daily basis. If you’re tired of living in a constant state of confusion with your Virgo guy, there are definitely ways to get the upper hand so you control the direction the relationship goes.
Virgo men like to be the center of their woman’s universe. That’s a broad statement, isn’t it? It tends to be true though. The reason is very simple. When a Virgo man begins to feel an emotional attachment to a woman he wants and needs to know that she feels exactly the same way about him. He doesn’t want to invest his heart into a relationship in which his partner just views him as a casual date. That’s why it’s imperative that you make your Virgo man know that you truly do see him as someone remarkably special. Take time each day to tell him as much. If you are proactive with this he won’t feel that you aren’t as committed to him as he is to you.
When things go wrong, even slightly, as in the form of a minor disagreement, Virgo men sometimes blow things completely out of proportion. You may have already experienced this and if you have, you have my sympathies. This can be emotionally tasking even on the strongest of women. It’s hard when the man you adore just shuts down completely because you two have a conflict. Some Virgo men even take their disappointment so far that they walk out of the relationship for a time. In this case, it’s natural that you’d panic because to you his actions clearly indicate that he’s had enough and is never coming back. He’ll be back and unless you address his behavior in a calm and rational way, he’ll repeat this circle again and again.
Tell your Virgo man that although you understand that he gets frustrated and looks to the nearest exit, that’s just not acceptable to you. Suggest instead that if you two reach a point where he feels the need to vacate the relationship for a time that he simply calls a time out and disappears into himself for a few days. If you have this agreement in place you’ll be emotionally prepared the next time he retreats. The difference is that you’ll both understand that just because he’s taken a step back to find his bearings, it doesn’t mean the relationship is over.
You also must be mindful of the Virgo’s need to keep information close to his vest. Typically when a couple becomes closer they share more and more of themselves with their partner. Virgo men aren’t always on board for this. Although he may want to know as much as he can about you, he may not be as willing to share his private information with you. He will in time though so view this as an exercise in patience and show him that you trust that waiting to learn more about him will be rewarded by an even deeper connection between the two of you.
Source by Gillian Reynolds